If that sounds like your current partner, then chances are you’re just a hookup. If they never make plans in advance, and are texting you at 9 PM or later to “watch a movie,” then you’re definitely not their first priority or their first option.This is a tell-tale sign that they’ve placed you in the “just sex” category.Many relationships nowadays begin in the hookup phase—even though that’s kind of the opposite of how it’s supposed to work.
He always wants to make it abundantly clear that he wants nothing else, using these signs.[Read: How to make a guy want a relationship after being just his FWB] #16 They’re open about the fact that they’re seeing other people.If you know they’re seeing other people, then they absolutely don’t want anything more than a hookup from you.[Read: 10 scenarios when it’s the perfect time for that relationship talk] #6 They avoid texting/calling until later in the day.When you’re waking up to zero texts or calls from them and you still haven’t gotten a response to your “good morning” until after dinner time, you’ve probably come across someone only interested in a hookup.But what I’m finding more recently is that many people meet, skip the whole dating part—which I don’t understand, because if you’re a girl, it’s free food—and head straight to the bedroom, after only a few drinks at a bar.