But although he said his faith was important to him, attending church and reading the Bible were not high on his priority list.
I had to ask myself, “Is he really on the same page as me when it comes to my Christian faith?
And as I look back on past relationships, I can see why Matt and I are the best match compared to others we each dated.
Don’t get me wrong, you could probably make your current relationship work.
But I also believe that we will be happiest in marriage if we allow God to choose our mate for us.I believe that God pairs us up with people that complement the gifts, talents, and personalities that He has given us – if we let Him. The guys I dated before I began dating my husband were not all bad guys. We genuinely cared about each other and had fun together.But in each relationship there were things that didn’t feel quite right.I’ve read many books about relationships and Christian dating. His views helped me establish my own standards regarding marriage.I decided that I wanted nothing less than God’s best for me. It means if you have doubts about the relationship, if your significant other doesn’t treat you with the upmost respect, if you argue more than you get along, if you constantly find yourself defending him or her to your friends, then end it.His job often seemed more important to him than our relationship, and he would repeatedly put friends or family before me.